It's been 8 months since the breakup, and even though I've been pretty good about not calling her (called her last on her b'day feb month of this year), I'm still reminded of her just about every single day. Whether it's had dinner in saravana bhavan where we had gulab jamun which is the only type of sweet now i take thanks to her, I am reminded every day. My friend told me there's an equation for the mourning period. It basically takes a person half of the duration of the entire relationship to get over someone. According to this theory, it should take me two year to get over her, since we were together for four. Two year is quite a lot of time. I know some guys who've never gotten over their first girlfriends. These guys would take their old girlfriends back even today. So back to my breakup. I want this madness to stop, and it's not like I still really love her, but I don't hate her, and she did the breaking up. The problem is that I believe there's a reason for everything, but with this situation, I cannot begin to think of a possible reason for this, and it's killing me.